Chasing Shadows: The Myth of Falling in Love Twice

Loving the ‘Ghosts’ of the Past

The Illusions of Rekindled Love

To rekindle love with the same person is to engage not with the individual afresh but with the echoes of memories. This profound realisation speaks to the heart’s intrinsic tendency to seek comfort in the familiar, often failing to distinguish between past and present.

When you attempt to fall in love a second time with the same person, it is not the person themselves that you are drawn to, but rather the nostalgic recollections of who they once were in your life. The heart, in its yearning, seeks not the present reality but the cherished illusions of the past. This longing is similar to chasing a mirage, where the closer you believe you are to reclaiming that love, the further you drift from the truth of the now.

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Memories hold a powerful sway over us. They encapsulate moments of joy, connection, and intimacy, making them seem far more vibrant than the reality might have been. Everyone changes in life. Their looks, likes, dislikes, attitudes, expectations from others, and overall philosophy of life keep changing. When a person endeavours to rediscover a lost love, the truth is that they are not engaging with the person as they are in the present moment, with all their growth, changes, and complexities. Instead, they entwine themselves with the shadows of what once was, rather than the essence of what is.

This pursuit is fraught with peril. It sets us on a path where the idealised past overshadows the potential of the present. The beauty of memory lies in its ability to preserve moments, yet its danger resides in its capacity to imprison us within them. By constantly looking backwards, we risk missing the opportunities for genuine connection and growth that exist in the present.

To truly understand the nature of love is to recognise its fluidity. Love is not a static entity that can be perfectly recaptured once lost; it is an evolving force that thrives in the present moment. Embracing this perspective allows us to honour our memories, all of which are learning experiences, without becoming enslaved by them, and opening ourselves to the possibility of new experiences and deeper connections.

In the end, the quest to fall in love again with the same person teaches us a poignant lesson: the past, with all its beauty and pain, should be cherished but not clung to. The essence of true love lies in its ability to adapt, to grow, and to find beauty in the present, rather than in the shadows of what once was.


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Transform Your Life with Plant-Based Living

Ready to Ditch the Rut and Reignite Your Life? Or do you still want to continue your same old boring life?

Let’s face it, life can get stagnant. We all get stuck in routines, feeling sluggish and uninspired. But what if I told you there’s a way to break free, reclaim your energy, and become a force of nature – just like me? 

Dedication and Discipline

(McFit is the name of the gym in Germany where I train.)

Nearly 60, and I can still outwork most youngsters at the gym! I bench press 100 Kg. My secret? It’s not some magic potion (although delicious smoothies come close!). It’s attitude and a powerful lifestyle I call Vegan Guardian.

Intrigued? You should be! Vegan Guardian isn’t your typical vegan blog. It’s about transforming yourself from the inside out.

It’s about:

  • Unleashing Plant-Based Power: Ditch the animal products and discover a new level of vibrant health.
  • Awakening Your Inner Beast: Get moving! Because exercise is your body’s natural fountain of youth.
  • Realising Universal Oneness: Discover the peace and clarity of Vedanta philosophy.

For ten years, I’ve shared my experiences on this blog. But sometimes, inspiration needs a little nudge. That’s why I’m launching a brand-new project: Vegan Guardian!

This dedicated space is all about empowering YOU to take control of your life. It’s about feeling amazing, having boundless energy, and living life to the fullest.

Inspired by my incredible dad, a beacon of joy, and the wisdom of an ancient Tamil poet sage called Tirumoolar, who said in Tamil: “யாம் (யான்) பெற்ற இன்பம் பெறுக இவ்வையகம்” “yaam (yaan) pettra inbam peruga ivvayagam” May the Ultimate bliss received by me, be received by everyone.” What a generous statement!

Ultimate bliss isn’t some far-off dream. It’s a state of profound well-being that’s closer than you think. All you need is the will to make it yours! YEP! That is the ONLY REQUIREMENT.

Ready to embark on this exciting adventure? Head to my (OUR) new blog, Vegan Guardian, and unleash the vibrant, healthy, youthful, strong, and powerful you!

Get ready to ditch the limitations and redefine what it means to truly live.

I’ll be sharing AWESOME VEGAN RECIPES, killer workout routines, and deep dives into each pillar of the Vegan Guardian Lifestyle.

Can there be anyone who does not want to look and feel youthful and possess excellent and robust health?

Take a moment to reflect: Is it right to put dead animals or animal secretions into your mouth?

Are you ready to awaken the Vegan Guardian within? Let’s go!

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The Silent Observer

Quest for Inner Peace

Discover the Hidden Power Within: “The Silent Observer” Unveils Your Boundless Consciousness

Have you ever felt there’s more to life than meets the eye? A deeper truth that lies beyond the daily grind and surface-level emotions? My latest video, “The Silent Observer: Unveil Your Boundless Consciousness,” invites you on a journey into the heart of your existence.

In our lives, which are filled with distractions and constant noise, finding inner peace and clarity can seem like an impossible task. But what if the key to unlocking a profound sense of calm and understanding was already within you, waiting to be discovered?

This captivating video introduces the concept of the “Silent Observer,” a hidden aspect of your consciousness that remains unaffected by external events and emotions. By tapping into this boundless awareness, you can transcend the limitations of your everyday experiences and connect with a deeper, more stable state of being.

Why You Should Watch “The Silent Observer”

  • Intriguing Insights: Uncover the mysteries of your subconscious mind and how it shapes your perceptions and emotions.
  • Spiritual Awakening: Dive into ancient wisdom that reveals the true nature of your existence.
  • Empowerment: Learn simple yet profound techniques to gain mastery over your mind and emotions.

What Awaits You

Prepare to embark on a journey that challenges your understanding of reality and opens the door to a new way of perceiving the world. This video will leave you pondering deep questions and eager to explore the vast potential of your own consciousness.

Join the Journey

This isn’t just another video; it’s an invitation to transform your life. As you watch, you’ll begin to see glimpses of a deeper truth that can bring lasting peace and fulfillment. Are you ready to unveil your boundless consciousness and connect with the Silent Observer within?

Watch the video now and embark on a journey of self-discovery and spiritual awakening.


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Free Downloads – Quick Reference Shlokas from the Bhagavad Gita

Shlokas for different situations

I am happy to share with you, six insightful and transformative downloadable PDFs, each addressing a crucial aspect of personal growth and spiritual development. These resources are designed to help you navigate life’s challenges with wisdom and grace:

  1. Krishna: The Divine Father and Mother – Explore Krishna’s nurturing and protective aspects, embodying both paternal and maternal love.
  2. KILL Fear and Anger – Learn practical techniques to overcome fear and anger, transforming these negative emotions into sources of strength.
  3. Remove Demotivation – Discover effective strategies to reignite your passion and drive, helping you stay motivated in all aspects of life.
  4. Handling Temptation – Gain insights into resisting temptations and making choices that align with your highest values and goals.
  5. Fighting Laziness – Equip yourself with tools and tips to combat laziness and cultivate a proactive and energetic mindset.
  6. How to Become Dear to Krishna? – Uncover the steps and practices to deepen your relationship with Krishna, fostering a sense of closeness and devotion.

Download these PDFs now to embark on a journey of self-improvement and spiritual enlightenment.

The SOUL Question

Who or what is it that dies, and who is it that reincarnates?

Unveiling the Soul Question: A Journey to Clarity

Have you ever wondered what happens after we die? The mysteries of the ‘soul’, the idea of life after death, and the concept of reincarnation have puzzled humanity for centuries. While many beliefs and theories exist, few provide a truly satisfying answer that dispels all doubts. My latest video, “The SOUL Question,” dives deep into these profound topics, offering a clear and insightful perspective that will leave your mind free of any lingering questions.

The Intrigue of the Soul

The idea that our essence, our soul, travels from one body to another after death is a common belief across many cultures and religions. But how can this be scientifically explained? This video explores this age-old concept, challenging the notion of an individual soul and providing a rational, evidence-based perspective on what truly happens when we die.

Breaking Down the Myths

From Karma and past lives to soul transmigration and spiritual hierarchies, this video addresses and deconstructs these myths one by one. In this video, we will question the very foundation of these beliefs, examining the logic and science behind them.

  • What is the soul made of?
  • Where is past Karma stored?
  • At what point does a soul enter a new body?
  • How do formless souls think or strategise and, like a certain spiritual leader said, ‘fight to acquire human bodies’?

The Influence of Ancient Wisdom

Drawing from the profound teachings of the Srimad Bhagavad Gita and the Upanishads, this video provides a clear and concise understanding of the SELF. These ancient texts offer wisdom that transcends time, helping us see beyond the illusions of life and death.

Dispelling Fear and Finding Peace

Fear of death and the unknown often leads people to seek solace in comforting but unfounded beliefs. This video aims to replace fear with knowledge, offering a perspective that brings peace of mind. By the end, you’ll have a deeper understanding of the true nature of existence, free from the myths that cloud our perception.

Why You Should Watch

If you’re ready to explore these profound questions and achieve a clear, rational understanding of life, death, and the soul, this video is for you. Whether you’re a seeker of truth, a student of philosophy, or simply curious about these eternal questions, “The SOUL Question” promises to enlighten and clarify.

Watch Now and Discover:

  • The reality of death and what truly happens
  • The scientific perspective on the soul
  • Insights from the Srimad Bhagavad Gita and Upanishads
  • How to achieve peace of mind and clarity about existence

Don’t miss out on this enlightening journey. Watch “The SOUL Question” now and transform your understanding of life and death forever. Please watch the video below and embark on this fascinating journey to clarity.

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“Nothing in this Life is Permanent, not even our Problems” – Charlie Chaplin

“Life is a tragedy when seen in close-up, but a comedy in long-shot.”

Charlie Chaplin once told a joke in front of an audience.

Everyone laughed.

And he told it a second time, so only a few laughed.

When he told it for the third time, no one laughed.

Then he said these beautiful words.

So cherish every moment life throws your way. Charlie Chaplin crafted a timeless legacy, his words resonating deeply without causing harm. These phrases, stirring the heart, stand as a testament to his profound impact.

Below are three quotes from Charlie Chaplin who is also known as the greatest showman of all times.

The “I Am” Truth: Brihadaranyaka Upanishad’s Path to Enlightenment

All beings are equally Divine

Vedic Wisdom for Everyday Life: Transcending Duality and Embracing Oneness

Unveiling the All-Pervading Truth: Beyond Form and Duality
In the whole of existence, Vedic Dharma offers a profound perspective on the ultimate reality: Brahman or Krishna. This all-encompassing truth transcends the limitations of the physical world, often described as an illusion (Maya).

The Impermanence of the Seen
Our senses perceive a world of sights, sounds, smells, tastes, and textures. Yet, these are mere appearances, ever-changing and impermanent. The true essence lies in the unchanging, formless Brahman – SatChitAnanda (Existence, Consciousness, Bliss).

Beyond Duality: The Oneness of All
Understanding Brahman shatters the illusion of duality. We are not separate entities, but expressions of the one divine consciousness. This dispels the misconception that some beings are more divine than others. All are equally part of the all-pervading truth.

The Illusory “I”
The ego, the sense of “I” and “me,” arises from our identification with the physical body. True knowledge lies in recognising the Self as a witness, not an actor. The question of origin (“Where do I come from?”) becomes irrelevant, for the eternal Brahman has no beginning or end.

Understanding through the Shlokas
The downloadable PDF files containing five Shlokas (verses) from the Bhagavad Gita below offer a glimpse into this all-pervading divinity. Studying these verses can help seekers awaken to the divine essence within and around them.

Moving Beyond Rituals
While rituals have their place, true spiritual growth comes from the knowledge and experience of Vedanta, the core philosophy of Vedic Dharma. Vedanta guides us towards realising the oneness of Brahman and dissolving the illusion of separation.

A Word on Anthropomorphism
It’s important to acknowledge that descriptions of Brahman or Krishna using human-like forms (anthropomorphism) are simply tools to aid comprehension. The ultimate reality is beyond such limitations.

The Wisdom of the Brihadaranyaka Upanishad
The profound statement “Aham Brahmasmi” (I am Brahman), from the Brihadaranyaka Upanishad 1.4.10 of the Yajur Veda, encapsulates the essence of non-duality. It reminds us that our true nature is inseparable from the all-pervading Brahman.

Embrace the Oneness
By shedding the veil of illusion and embracing the non-dual nature of Brahman, we can cultivate a life filled with peace, understanding, and connection to all beings.

Love and respect everyone, all living beings, and, above all, sincerely adore and revere nature.

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Holy Cow! Echoes of Despair

The Silent Cry of Bovine Suffering

The Unspoken Suffering: A Wake-Up Call for Compassionate Living

The daily rush drowns out a different kind of sound: the quiet cries of pain. Bovine animals, those once majestic creatures who grazed peacefully in our fields and fed our families, now endure a hidden world of suffering. We rush past it, oblivious to the silent desperation in their eyes, and to the echoes of their cries that go unnoticed in the corridors of human indifference.

For centuries, cows and their kin have been steadfast companions to humanity, serving not only as a source of nourishment but also, in a nation like Bharat or modern-day India, as symbols of reverence in pastoral cultures. However, right since the beginning of the 20th century, the landscape has shifted, and with it, the treatment of these gentle giants has taken a grim turn.

In the relentless pursuit of productivity, international milk industries have reduced cows to mere commodities, neglecting their intrinsic worth and relegating them to the confines of profit margins. The consequence? Once these noble creatures cease to produce milk, they are callously abandoned, left to wander the unforgiving Indian streets in search of sustenance. 

Whitewashing all the horrible things done to cows in the name of religious traditions is an even greater crime against nature. Where in the Srimad Bhagavad Gita does Krishna ask a devotee to pour milk on His ‘vigrahas’?

Picture the heartbreaking sight of aged cows, once cherished, now forced to scavenge for scraps, their proud stature diminished by neglect and apathy. It’s a stark reminder of our collective failure to uphold the values of compassion and empathy that lie at the core of our humanity. Many Indians accord cows the status of a mother because they ‘give’ milk. Would these same people send their own mothers to the streets to find food? Why is there such hypocrisy when it comes to bovine animals? Humans steal baby cow food and claim that the cow ‘gave’ them her milk? When did a cow ever ring the doorbell of a farmer and offer her milk for human consumption?! 

I personally use the term ‘white blood’ for mammary milk. You might want to Google the question, ‘Why is milk white?’

But there is hope, flickering like a candle in the darkness of indifference. Each of us holds the power to make a difference, however small, in the lives of these sentient beings. By choosing to embrace compassion and extend a helping hand to those in need, we can rewrite the narrative of suffering and create a world where kindness reigns supreme.

To those who champion vegetarianism as a symbol of purity and ethical living, I urge you to confront the uncomfortable truth: your consumption habits, albeit plant-based, still greatly contribute to the suffering of bovine animals. Watch the short video linked below to gain a deeper understanding of how your choices resonate far beyond your plates.

While this post focuses on the exploitation of bovine animals, it serves as a call to awaken compassion in the hearts of people for all living beings. Every living being has the right to live its full natural life.

When humans consume meat, dairy, or any other animal product, it is merely one drink, snack, or meal for them, but for the poor, voiceless animals, it is their whole life.

Being vegetarian alone does not absolve the consumer of being a part of the system of mass animal torture and slaughter. Going 100% Vegan is the only way and the highest stage in the process of human dietary evolution.

Let us not turn a blind eye to the suffering of our fellow beings. Let us stand united in our commitment to uphold the rights of all creatures, great and small. For in our collective compassion lies the promise of a brighter, more humane future for future generations.

NO! Meat and other animal products are not necessary for a healthy, disease-free, peaceful, and happy life. Research for yourself if you so wish, try, yes, at least try to emerge out of the cognitive dissonance that shrouds the intellect of masses, and leads them towards unimaginable diseases.

Watch the heart-rending short video below, as well as the other videos I have shared on this post, and take a step towards compassionate living. Together, we can make a difference.

Visit TVM Vegan to watch more informative videos on the subject.

If you care for your own health and that of your loved ones, please don’t miss the film ‘What the Health?’

‘Ma Ka Doodh’/’Mother’s Milk’: Rethinking the Milk Myth and Cultural Beliefs