First Achieve and Then Let Go!

Sour Grapes and Self-Pity – Escaping Life’s Responsibilities

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In my journey of counselling and guiding individuals over the last decade through my Tavamithram blog, I have encountered numerous men and women who, after interactions with me, emerged more courageous, fearless, and self-confident. There have been a couple of young women who imbibed the knowledge I imparted so well that they did things requiring extensive courage—actions that would make a regular man think not just twice but three times. However, there are exceptions. Despite receiving extensive personal counselling, some individuals persist in wallowing in self-pity, which is something I always try to nip in the bud. This phenomenon, especially among young men, often manifests as existential rhetoric and disillusionment with worldly pursuits. This certainly does not sound even fundamentally manly to me. CONTINUE READING ON SUBSTACK.

Embracing Vitality: The Real Measure of Age

Age Is Just a Number!

DIET – EXERCISE – ATTITUDE

In our culture, age often comes with preconceived notions and limitations. However, the concept that age is merely a number, challenges these views, highlighting that vitality and well-being are not solely defined by how many years we’ve lived.

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Think of your body as a vehicle. Just as a car requires regular maintenance to function optimally, our bodies need consistent care to stay in peak condition. This involves more than just physical fitness—it encompasses a balanced diet, mental wellness, and a positive outlook on life.

Prioritising health and fitness ensures that our ‘vehicle’ runs smoothly and efficiently, allowing us to live fully and energetically. It’s not about our chronological age but about how we maintain our health and approach life’s challenges.

Adopting this perspective means recognising that it’s never too late to improve your health. Whether you’re in your 30s, 50s, or beyond, making positive lifestyle changes can lead to a more vibrant and fulfilling life.

I got my son interested in fitness when he was in his early teens, and now that he’s turned 20, it’s clear that he’s been bitten by the fitness bug. It’s truly wonderful to see a young person, whether male or female, building their physique early in life.

For Indians, this can be especially important, as we often have a disadvantage compared to some other races when it comes to building muscle easily. And when I say muscle, I’m not talking about the kind of bulk a bodybuilder might have—I mean the muscle strength that everyone needs, regardless of age.

The best approach is to start early in life, but if you haven’t, make it a top priority and start today. Consult a fitness coach or find guidance online, and follow through with dedication.

Ultimately, our well-being is shaped by our choices and attitudes, not just the passage of time. By focusing on self-care and embracing a proactive approach to health, we can enjoy a dynamic and enriching life, no matter our age.

-Go VEGAN
-Exercise Regularly
-Adopt a Mindful Lifestyle