First Achieve and Then Let Go!

Sour Grapes and Self-Pity – Escaping Life’s Responsibilities

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In my journey of counselling and guiding individuals over the last decade through my Tavamithram blog, I have encountered numerous men and women who, after interactions with me, emerged more courageous, fearless, and self-confident. There have been a couple of young women who imbibed the knowledge I imparted so well that they did things requiring extensive courage—actions that would make a regular man think not just twice but three times. However, there are exceptions. Despite receiving extensive personal counselling, some individuals persist in wallowing in self-pity, which is something I always try to nip in the bud. This phenomenon, especially among young men, often manifests as existential rhetoric and disillusionment with worldly pursuits. This certainly does not sound even fundamentally manly to me. CONTINUE READING ON SUBSTACK.

Fate and Time: The Tragic Story of Mike Lynch

In my latest video, I delve into the poignant and impactful story of Mike Lynch, a man whose life and career were marked by remarkable achievements and profound challenges. Despite his success, Lynch’s life took a tragic turn with his untimely death while on his yacht—a stark reminder of how swiftly fate can alter our course.

In this video, I offer an introspective look at Lynch’s journey, touching on the themes of fate, the passage of time, and the importance of living fully in the present. I explore how Lynch’s story serves as a powerful lesson about the unpredictable nature of life and the significance of embracing each moment with gratitude and responsibility.

Join me as I unravel the elements of Lynch’s life and legacy, and reflect on the crucial lessons we can learn from his experiences. Don’t miss this opportunity to gain insight into how to navigate life’s uncertainties with grace and mindfulness.