Stuck? Escape Regret. Get the Life You Deserve

Break Free from Emotional Baggage with This Transformative Two-Word Mantra

Are you tired of being stuck in repetitive emotional patterns, haunted by your past, and overwhelmed by regret? This powerful new video dives into a life-changing concept that blends spiritual clarity, emotional resilience, and mental discipline through the use of two deceptively simple yet profound mantras: “So what?” and “What next?”.

Rooted in Vedanta, and enriched by a personal journey of spiritual transformation, this message is a wake-up call for those ready to reclaim their power. Whether you’re on the path of self-inquiry, seeking personal development, or aiming to cultivate a growth mindset, this video offers direct and practical tools to help you move forward.

Let go of self-pity, stop dwelling on the past, and embrace conscious living. The time to transform your inner world is now.

The Dog, the Dream, and the Determination: A Lesson from Sylvester Stallone’s Life

$40, a Dog, and a Dream – The Sylvester Stallone Story

My First Hero

My first hero in life is my courageous and adventurous beloved father. He gave me more than just his genes – he passed on his unyielding spirit, his drive to push forward no matter the odds, his boldness to walk paths no one else dared, and his deeply compassionate heart that never turned away someone in need. He shaped the way I saw life – with resilience, strength, and the confidence that I could rise above even the darkest moments to reach heights I once thought were beyond me.

The Inspiration That Shaped a Generation

When Rocky I hit the screens, I had just entered my teens. Like countless others around the world, I was captivated. I grew up inspired by the unforgettable roles Sylvester Stallone played in his films, particularly in his two most successful series ‘Rocky‘ and ‘Rambo‘ – each one a celebration of courage, grit, and a never-say-die spirit.

This moving story about Stallone and his dog, Butkus, has always stayed with me. It’s more than a story – it’s a timeless life lesson in loyalty, sacrifice, and self-confidence.


Sylvester Stallone: The Man Who Bought Back His Soul

From Rock Bottom to Rocky – $40, a Dog, and a Dream

In the early 1970s, a broke and struggling Sylvester Stallone was living in a tiny New York apartment with little more than ragged clothes, a typewriter, and his loyal bullmastiff, Butkus. The dog was his only comfort – a companion who loved him unconditionally through his darkest days.

But as hunger gnawed and desperation grew, Stallone made a soul-crushing decision: he sold Butkus for just $40 to a stranger outside a liquor store. He later described it as one of the lowest moments of his life – like selling a piece of his own heart.

Then came a spark of inspiration. After watching the Muhammad Ali vs. Chuck Wepner fight, Stallone poured his energy into writing Rocky in a furious three-day sprint. Studio after studio loved the script but rejected him as the lead actor. Stallone stood firm – he was Rocky and wouldn’t sell the story unless he could play the part.

Eventually, producers Irwin Winkler and Robert Chartoff agreed. They offered him a modest $1 million budget and the role of a lifetime.

The Price of Loyalty

The moment Stallone received his first pay cheque, he set out to find Butkus. The man who had bought the dog now knew who Stallone was. Rocky was making waves. The man demanded $15,000 for the dog’s return. Without blinking, Stallone paid it.

Butkus didn’t just come home – he stepped into history. The dog appeared in Rocky I and Rocky II, symbolising the real-life loyalty and perseverance that had brought Stallone through his darkest days.

By 1977, Rocky had won three Academy Awards, including Best Picture. It was more than just a film – it was the echo of Stallone’s own life, his battles, and his unyielding belief in himself.


My final thoughts

Buying back Butkus wasn’t just about reclaiming a dog. It was a bold declaration that no matter how far you fall, your dreams, your sense of loyalty, and your self-worth are worth fighting for. It was about knowing that even in your darkest hour, you can rise again and reclaim what you may have lost – not just through misfortune, but perhaps through your own mistakes, misjudgements, or desperate decisions – by holding on to your self-respect, values, principles, and all that truly matters.

Let this true story remind us all:
Your lowest point may be the start of your greatest triumph.

First Achieve and Then Let Go!

Sour Grapes and Self-Pity – Escaping Life’s Responsibilities

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In my journey of counselling and guiding individuals over the last decade through my Tavamithram blog, I have encountered numerous men and women who, after interactions with me, emerged more courageous, fearless, and self-confident. There have been a couple of young women who imbibed the knowledge I imparted so well that they did things requiring extensive courage—actions that would make a regular man think not just twice but three times. However, there are exceptions. Despite receiving extensive personal counselling, some individuals persist in wallowing in self-pity, which is something I always try to nip in the bud. This phenomenon, especially among young men, often manifests as existential rhetoric and disillusionment with worldly pursuits. This certainly does not sound even fundamentally manly to me. CONTINUE READING ON SUBSTACK.

From Stagnation to Success: Mastering Negative Karmic Inertia

Shattering All Blockades in Life

Understanding the Three Gunas: A Path to Self-Improvement

Understanding the three Gunas explained in the Srimad Bhagavad Gita offers profound insights into human behaviour and consciousness. These three fundamental qualities—Sattva (goodness), Rajas (passion), and Tamas (ignorance)—shape our thoughts, actions, and overall life experience. Among these, the Tamasa Guna, which embodies indolence, laziness, lethargy, negativity, and pessimism, often acts as a significant impediment to personal growth and productivity. I refer to this as ‘Negative Karmic Inertia.’

Much like maintaining a good hormonal balance is crucial for physical health, achieving a harmonious balance of the three Gunas is essential for a fulfilling and enriching life. By understanding and managing our Guna levels, we can enhance our self-awareness and work towards self-improvement. The real transformation happens within, even if the knowledge and inspiration come from external sources.

The Role of Tamasa Guna

Excessive Tamas is like a heavy weight that chains a person to the ground, preventing any positive change and perpetuating a state of lethargy and inertia. It not only affects one’s behaviour but also distorts one’s ability to rationalise and make sound decisions. A person overwhelmed by Tamas might find themselves stuck in a cycle of inaction and negativity, unable to break free and achieve their true potential.

The Three Gunas explained in the Bhagavad Gita

The Srimad Bhagavad Gita provides a detailed explanation of the three Gunas and their effects on individuals:

SBG 14:5 – “The three Gunas or qualities are Sattva, which is the quality of goodness; Rajas, which is the quality of passion; and Tamas, which is the quality of ignorance; O mighty-armed one. They are born of Prakriti which is Nature. These qualities bind very fast the immutable embodied Self in the body.”

SBG 14:6 – “Of these, Sattva, which, due to its purity, is luminous and healthy, frees a person of all Karmic reactions. Those of this Guna are attached to knowledge and to happiness, O sinless one.”

SBG 14:7 – “You should know Rajas to be the Guna or nature of passion, which is the source of desire and attachment. O Arjuna, it binds fast to the embodied Self by attachment to action.”

SBG 14:8 – “Tamas is born of ignorance and deludes all embodied beings. O Arjuna, this results in the binding of the embodied soul by negligence, sleep and laziness!”

SBG 14:9 – “O Arjuna, Sattva binds one to happiness, Rajas to action, while Tamas shrouds knowledge and binds one to idiocy.”

SBG 14:10 – “O descendant of Bharata (Arjuna), Sattva prevails over Rajas and Tamas, while Rajas manifests itself by overpowering Sattva and Tamas; and Tamas manifests itself by subduing Sattva and Rajas.”

SBG 14:11 – “When the light of wisdom shines through every sense in this body, it may be known that Sattva is predominant.”

SBG 14:12 – “When greed, endeavour for material gains, restlessness and longing arise; Rajas is predominant, O Arjuna.”

SBG 14:13 – “The presence of illusion, darkness, recklessness and delusion in a person indicate the predominance of Tamas in them, O Arjuna.”

Overcoming Negative Karmic Inertia

Many people struggle with feelings of demotivation and an inability to achieve their goals. This internal blockage often stems from an excess of the Tamasa Guna. Conversely, those driven by an excessive Rajas Guna might find themselves aggressive and even harmful in their pursuit of desires.

Managing Rajas

SBG 3:36-37: Arjuna asks Krishna: What prompts a man to perform sinful deeds, O descendant of Vrshni? Why does he commit such acts even without desiring to do them, as if he were forced?

Shri Bhagavan Krishna replies: Lust and anger are born out of the material nature called Rajoguna, which is insatiable and prompts man to commit sin. You must know that this is the greatest enemy in a man’s spiritual life.

Understanding one’s Guna ratio is akin to a doctor diagnosing a patient: it allows for targeted self-improvement. By identifying and addressing the predominant Guna that is out of balance, individuals can work on the specific areas needed to overcome unwanted situations in life.

Self-Study and Introspection

The path to self-improvement begins with self-study and introspection. Rather than casting blame on external factors, it is crucial to look within and understand the internal dynamics that drive our behaviour. By doing so, we can achieve a harmonious balance of the Gunas, leading to a more pleasant, enriching, and fulfilling life.

Finally, the knowledge of the three Gunas offers a powerful tool for self-awareness and personal growth. By recognising the influence of Tamas and working to balance it with Sattva and Rajas, we can overcome negative karmic inertia and realise our true potential. The journey to self-improvement is an inward one, and the key to success lies in understanding and managing the forces within us.

Reflect on your own Guna ratio, identify the areas that need attention, and take the necessary steps to bring balance and harmony into your life. Embrace the power of self-awareness and let it guide you towards a brighter, more fulfilling future.

If you truly want to change your life, it is you who must change, for the world will not bend to your will.

“Who looks outside dreams; who looks inside awakes.” – Carl Jung

The Ever-Relevant Gita: A Present-Day Rendering

Embracing the Blissful Journey: The Ever-Relevant Gita – A Present-Day Rendering by Tavamithram Sarvada

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Part 1: Preface and Introduction + Chapters 1-6

The preface and introduction lay the foundation for your exploration. Don't be tempted to skip these initial chapters; they are the compass guiding you through the intricate terrain of the Gita's philosophy. Understand the core teachings, and you'll find yourself motivated to delve deeper, perhaps into the rich Bhashyams or commentaries of Shri Adi Shankara and other great teachers.

Part 2: Chapters 7-12

As you progress through these chapters, absorb the profound insights that unfold. The clarity of understanding achieved in the earlier sections becomes the stepping stone for an even more profound comprehension of Krishna's teachings.

Part 3: Chapters 13-18 + Outro

The culmination of your journey awaits in the final chapters. The outro ties the threads together, offering a comprehensive view of the Gita's timeless wisdom. This concluding section is not to be missed; it holds the key to empowerment and self-confidence.

Namaste Seekers,

Embark on a profound journey into the timeless wisdom of the Srimad Bhagavad Gita with ‘The Ever-Relevant Gita: A Present-day Rendering by Tavamithram Sarvada.’ Below, I’ll elucidate the profound significance of this work and its potential to illuminate the path to self-realisation.

In a fast-paced world fraught with complexities, the solace found in ancient wisdom often remains unexplored. 'The Ever-Relevant Gita – A Present-day Rendering by Tavamithram Sarvada’ endeavours to bridge this gap, bringing forth the profound teachings of the Srimad Bhagavad Gita to everyone, irrespective of age, background, or familiarity with ancient scriptures.

Dispelling Myths and Misconceptions

The main challenge involves dispelling misconceptions that surround the Srimad Bhagavad Gita—misconceptions about its perceived depth, religious connotations, and its relevance limited to the elderly or devout individuals. In this modern interpretation, we untangle myths and present timeless wisdom in a manner that aligns with the sensibilities of the contemporary mind.

A Unique Approach: Audio, Video, and E-book Formats

Understanding the daunting nature of lengthy translations, a unique approach has been taken by creating easily digestible audio recordings of each chapter. These recordings allow listeners to absorb the essence of the Gita at their own pace, breaking down barriers that often deter individuals from exploring this ageless scripture.

Beyond presentation, this initiative is a call to embark on a blissful journey of self-discovery. In my life, which has been shaped by numerous challenges and life-altering situations, the importance of a well-trained instinct and a balanced mindset has become crystal clear to me. A clear understanding of the fundamental principles of the teachings in the Srimad Bhagavad Gita certainly plays a pivotal role in shaping attitudes, cultivating fearlessness, and fostering rational thinking during critical moments.

Practical Insights for Daily Application

The true power of the Srimad Bhagavad Gita lies in its application in everyday life. The focus is not merely on delivering a rendition or chanting Shlokas, but on providing practical insights that enable individuals to apply these teachings in their daily lives, leading to a more fulfilling and blissful existence.

In essence, the mission is to make the teachings of the Srimad Bhagavad Gita easily accessible, relatable, and applicable to everyone, fostering a deeper understanding of life's intricacies. Join me on this enlightening journey, and let's journey through the supreme scripture together.

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Jai Shri Krishna

The Secret to Eternal Youth – My V.E.V. Journey

Embrace the V.E.V. Method for a Transformed Life

Welcome to an incredible journey of transformation with V.E.V.—Veganism, Exercise, and Vedanta. These three pillars form the core of my lifestyle, bringing unparalleled health, vitality, and inner peace. In the video below, I share how adopting these principles has revolutionised my life.

The Power of Veganism

A balanced vegan diet, rich in essential nutrients, fuels my body and keeps me energised and youthful. Embracing a compassionate lifestyle not only benefits my health but also promotes environmental sustainability and animal welfare.

The Importance of Exercise

Regular physical activity is crucial for maintaining strength and fitness. I explore the various exercises and routines that help me stay active and in top shape. Whether it’s hitting the gym, cycling, or yoga, staying physically active is a key component of my balanced life.

The Wisdom of Vedanta

Vedanta provides the mental clarity and peace necessary for making wise decisions and living a balanced life. This ancient philosophy helps reduce fears, worries, and feelings of inadequacy, allowing me to build a strong foundation for overall well-being.

If you’re looking to improve your health, embrace a compassionate lifestyle, or find inner peace, my video offers valuable insights and inspiration. Join me as I delve into the transformative power of V.E.V. and discover how to live a vibrant, balanced, and fulfilling life.

Don’t miss out—watch the video, and let’s embark on this journey together!

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The MIND – Man’s Greatest Tool

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Treat Insults and Setbacks as ‘ROCKET FUEL’

Shatter the Cycle: BURN and RESET your Karma!


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Anger – your greatest ally?

Harness Your Rage and Redefine Your Reality

TheTriple ‘Z’ 

What if I told you that anger isn’t something to be feared or suppressed, but rather a powerful force that, when harnessed wisely, can drive incredible change in your life?

Well, some people are happy with their lives, not so happy, sad, or even sick of their lives. If everything is going well, and you are happy, just continue doing what you are doing and living the way you are. I don’t propagate the ideas of ‘good and bad’ or ‘right and wrong,’ which I consider dogmatic. Common sense alone tells us that something is good and right if it makes us happy and in no way harms our health, surroundings, nature, or others.

However, many are unhappy, dissatisfied, depressed, weak, or scared and would like to change their lives for the better. For those who genuinely want to make changes, however big or small, here are some steps you might want to follow:

  1. Identifying the Problems

Write down what you don’t like about your current situation, whether it’s your appearance, living circumstances, work, mindset, or any other area of your life. Be as specific as possible. I have given some easy and practical hacks in my video titled ‘Shatter the Cycle: BURN and RESET your Karma!’

  1. Setting Clear Goals

Next, think about what you want to achieve. What does your ideal self look like? How do you want to feel or think differently? Write down these goals so that you have a clear target to aim for. Be absolutely specific and describe your ideal self in detail.

  1. Execution

Once you’ve identified your problems and set your goals, begin outlining the steps or strategies needed to achieve them. This might involve altering your habits, seeking guidance, or acquiring new skills. Concentrate on taking small, manageable actions that will steadily progress you towards your objectives.

By breaking it down into these steps, you’ll have a clearer path to follow, making it easier to track your progress and stay motivated along the way.

Sitting alone, fretting, fuming, or complaining will only lead to self-pity, and that will ensure that your life stays exactly the way it is now, if not worse.

A Personal Story of Transformation

Thirty years ago, during a 48-hour self-imposed retreat, I conceived and meticulously crafted ‘Project KR’, where I defined and redefined exactly how I wanted my life to unfold.

Almost everything I described in Project KR has been happening so far. This includes the realisation of far-fetched aims, such as meeting with Queen Elizabeth II, and many other things that would have seemed impossible at that time.

I must emphasise that the goals and strategies I outlined in my playbook, which I boldly committed to nearly 30 years ago – defying all conventional thought processes and career planning – have not only materialised but have done so with astonishing precision, even in the finer details. Keep in mind, Rhonda Byrne’s ‘The Secret’ hadn’t even been written back then!

Likely Source of My Determination

My determination likely stemmed from the intense anger I harboured due to the wrongs inflicted upon me by others, which I now recognise as a result of my own naïveté or even foolishness. It’s often said that necessity is the mother of invention, and my ‘necessity,’ or rather my overwhelming drive to transform my life, was so powerful that I was able to create possibilities out of seemingly nothing.

The Triple ‘Z’: Zeal, Zest, and Zing

Around the time I embarked on my 48-hour self-reflection, I was teaching French at several management colleges. I closely observed the mindsets of my students, aged 18 to 20. Among them, only a few exhibited a profound, intense drive to set ambitious goals, achieve them, and pursue a more fulfilling life. This further reinforced my belief that not everyone possesses a high level of drive. While this isn’t inherently wrong, it can result in either a lacklustre future or a life devoid of Zeal, Zest, and Zing – qualities I was highly driven to attain and live my life to the fullest, which I had almost lost in some major accidents earlier.

In the biographies of many great individuals I’ve read, one common thread stands out: they never blamed others for their circumstances. Instead, they took full responsibility, charted their own paths, and forged ahead with determination.

Final Thoughts:

Some people write to me saying that they want to improve their lives, looks, happiness, relationships, etc., but are unable to achieve them.

My question to them is, “Who is stopping you?”

Treat Insults and Setbacks as ‘ROCKET FUEL’

Shatter the Cycle: BURN and RESET your Karma!


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Shatter the Cycle: BURN and RESET your Karma!

Break Free from Fate and Change Your Life Instantly

Karma Hacks

The concept of karma, often misunderstood or shrouded in superstition, is essentially about the patterns and outcomes in our lives that are heavily influenced by our own attitudes, actions, and reactions. Here’s a simplified breakdown of how Karma functions and impacts our lives and even those of our descendants:


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