First Achieve and Then Let Go!

Sour Grapes and Self-Pity – Escaping Life’s Responsibilities

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In my journey of counselling and guiding individuals over the last decade through my Tavamithram blog, I have encountered numerous men and women who, after interactions with me, emerged more courageous, fearless, and self-confident. There have been a couple of young women who imbibed the knowledge I imparted so well that they did things requiring extensive courage—actions that would make a regular man think not just twice but three times. However, there are exceptions. Despite receiving extensive personal counselling, some individuals persist in wallowing in self-pity, which is something I always try to nip in the bud. This phenomenon, especially among young men, often manifests as existential rhetoric and disillusionment with worldly pursuits. This certainly does not sound even fundamentally manly to me. CONTINUE READING ON SUBSTACK.

“Find a Way, or Make One!” The Unshakeable Determination of Hannibal Barca

Overcoming the Impossible with Sheer Will

Unyielding Determination: The Legacy of Hannibal Barca

In a world where challenges are constant and obstacles seem insurmountable, the story of Hannibal Barca serves as a beacon of inspiration. Born in 247 BCE in Carthage, a powerful city-state in North Africa, Hannibal became one of history’s greatest military leaders, known for his daring campaigns against the Roman Empire during the Punic Wars.

Hannibal’s life is a demonstration to the power of unwavering determination and relentless ambition. From his daring feats against Rome to his famous declaration, “I will either find a way or make one,” Hannibal’s journey offers timeless lessons that are just as relevant today as they were over two millennia ago.

In my latest video, I explore the mindset and principles that made Hannibal an enduring symbol of perseverance. Watch the video below to discover how Hannibal’s legacy can inspire you to overcome any challenge and reach your own goals, no matter how distant they may seem.